Start small

Before your baby goes in, adjust the loop so it just fits them. It might feel a bit snug before you've settled together — and that's exactly the point. Less fabric to pull through the rings once you're both in position, and a more comfortable carry from the start.

A deep seat, not a full frog

You'll hear a lot about the M-position — knees wide, legs in a classic frog position — and it's the gold standard for healthy hip development. But in those first weeks, spreading tiny legs that wide can feel like a big ask.

Start with a deep seat instead. Bottom lower than knees, knees pointing forward rather than spread wide. It's supportive, comfortable, and gentler on a newborn's hips. As your baby grows and their joints open naturally, you can ease into the full M-position without any rush.

Support that little head

Newborns can't hold their head yet. That's where the tail of your Moon Sling comes in. Roll it up gently and tuck it behind the upper ring fabric, right at the back of their neck. It takes about two seconds and makes a real difference — your baby's head stays supported without you having to hold it with your hand the whole time.

Give yourself grace

Ring sling carrying is intuitive — but intuitive doesn't mean instant. There's a learning curve, especially in those first carries with a newborn. Not every wear will feel perfect right away, and that's completely okay.

One thing that always helps: the TICKS rule. A simple checklist you can run through any time you're not sure if everything is right.

Practice in front of a mirror

It sounds simple because it is. A mirror gives you a view you can't get on your own — you'll spot what needs adjusting before it becomes uncomfortable, and you'll feel more confident with every carry. A few practice runs without baby is also a great way to get familiar with how the rings work before the real thing.